If you dare do it, then you must dare to admit to it.

At the steps of the Duomo, in Milan, I, dressed in my maroon jumpsuit-shorts, was turned away entry.

I, the Chinese Asian, dressed in a tube top and shorts, was told "sorry, your attire is not suitable for entry."

I have no problem with the fact that my attire was not suitable for entry into the Church. I respect that. But what I had a major problem was the fact that the man who denied me entry, readily offered shawls for other inappropriately attired WHITE people to cover up and enter. Two black women were also turned away.

If I could speak Italian, I would tell him in the face that he should not stand in front of the church and insult the religion of his nation. I would tell him that he should be ashamed that he should stand in front of a place of worship and insult God. For is it not true that God made us all equal?
How dare he stand there, clearly a racist, and declare himself a Catholic? For shame.

When my bro-in-law went to ask Mr. Racist why he turned me away, he muttered that he turned anyone who was inappropriately attired, away. Please, God gave me eyes to see. And I stood in front of the church and saw you insult God with your actions. You may deny it, but God would have witnessed it. So, only you have to explain that to him if you ever make it to the Gates of Heaven. And if you do, I hope you will be denied entry because you're inappropriately unconscionable. And you're an eejit. But then again, that would be discriminatory. But who cares, you're still an eejit.

On a separate note, would I be a bad friend if I have tried to stop a friend's financial source from continuing because I think it 1) insults her bf 2) causes her to not be independent 3) "cheapens" her?

If she has a bf, but another man gives her money to sustain her, does it not insult her bf? Obviously her bf has no knowledge of it.

Is there a difference between a man giving you money voluntarily and you asking for it, as if , it is as of right? (and we are not talking about married couples here)
To me there is. There is a difference because if he gives it to you voluntarily, he wants to. If you ask for it, it means your friendship/companionship has a price. It shows that you think "because I am your friend/companion/bed buddy, I deserve to be given something in return."

If someone gives you money to sustain you, and you lie to your bf, family and friends about it, that is very wrong. No, I am not judging you. You are entitled to do it. But, why are you afraid to admit it?

If I hint at the fact that you are clawing on to this man for financial reasons, and you get offended that I am calling you a gold digger, when you obviously are, I really am at my wits end.

If you are a beautiful, intelligent girl, why do you sell yourself at a small price every month just for materialistic goods?

You know the Chinese saying?

If you dare to do it, you must dare to admit to it.