I can't deal with people who whine all day long about how they hate their jobs. Or how their relationship is a train wreck- "he won't commit!" "he won't move in with me!" "he chooses his family over me!"
Or how a migraine turns into "I HAVE BRAIN TUMOR" or a slight depression is something that requires seeing a psychologist every weekend.
Hate your job? Quit. Get a new one. Think you're not good enough to get a new job- try harder, get some skills, read some books, do something. Think you can't do any of that either? Then too bad. You're stuck in your current one, deal with it.
Hate your partner? Break up. Leave, never turn back. Move on. Hate his family- break up, leave and never turn back. Can't do it because you love him so much? Seriously, if his or her drama takes up your whole life, he or she is probably not worth it. How can ONE PERSON cause you so much grief? Doesn't that tell you something? DO something about it. If you love him, then stick with him and quit the whining. If you don't think you love him enough to deal with the drama, for fucks sakes, leave.
Have a crappy life? You determine what type of life you want. If you wake up every day and say OH I HATE MY LIFE, and then do nothing about it, you probably deserve the crappy life you have.
Hate your weight but only whine about it while sitting your ass on the sofa and chucking down crisps and cola? Well, guess what? You just have to live with your extra fat rolls and high cholesterol all by yourself because if you don't want to do something about it, then you just have to bloody live with it. Nobody wants to hear you whine about how you want to lose weight and how you hate to be fat when you do jackshit about it.
Does this make me the worst friend ever? Probably. But if you have real problems, and you want to find a solution to being able to wake up each day and have a better day than yesterday, then let's talk. If you want to whine, gripe, whine somemore and do nothing about it, call someone else.
